sheabutterbitch:

As many of you know I am a pre-licensed Black clinical therapist finishing up my last year of graduate school. Before I can sit for licensure and actually begin practicing I need to obtain several hundred clinical hours before graduation. If you are or know any therapists, you know these hours are unpaid and restrict you from working any kind of job to supplement that income.

I am a graduate and research assistant but I get paid a monthly salary that typically does not last the entire month. I am generally able to keep myself afloat despite this but after recent moving fees and other expected + unexpected expenses (getting a new car, having to rent a car for two weeks) my funds are still depleted.

If you’ve ever read and enjoyed my work, received any guidance from me directly or indirectly, or just would like to support me as a person it would be great if you could boost / help if possible. Whether I have been low on funds or comfortable financially I have always budgeted for mutual aid and community support because I know times are rough.

My Cash App is $Raevins and My Venmo is @RaevinW message me privately if you’d like to help another way.

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such a good pic

bogleech:

thingsthatcannotsaveyou:

STYLISH DESIGNER CLOWN SHOWERS (YOU KNOW, FOR KIDS) CANNOT SAVE YOU AND WILL IN FACT HASTEN YOUR CHILD’S DEMISE

The second one doesn’t really shower you but liquifies you and then drinks you

also i got a lot of messages yesterday about people’s’ experiences with weirdos who turn hating children into their whole personality and i’d like to say 1. i’m so sorry for the experiences y’all have had with these people and 2. we are all so big brained and smart for viewing children as human beings and not awful nuisances. i love being normal and having followers who are normal

catboysanlang:

catboysanlang:

catboysanlang:

this influx of lgbt people wanting to accept everything as ‘valid’ without questioning anything out of fear of being seen as bigoted has not gone well to say the least

I also believe it’s a result of this dumb idea that you need a label and a flag for everything. “I’m a bi lesbian bc I’m a lesbian but sometimes I’m attracted to men” putting aside the idea that you might just be bi… just say you’re questioning. just call yourself gay if no specific label applies, or queer if that’s cool with you, or just nothing at all because you do not need a label. a bi elder being seen as a lesbian for being with women back in their day is not the same person as you, early 20s, eating up shit you find on random carrds on the internet

this absolutely goes for lesbians struggling with comphet too and I don’t even need to explain why trying to make comphet into an actual label is not a good thing

my nephew whooping my ass today smh once a baby learns how to swing their hands around it’s over 💀

@anon no i am not and haven’t been in years but i would rather not talk about that publicly, sorry!

you’re so welcome! i bet it’ll turn out amazing!! my all time favorite hair treatment for post bleach and color is olaplex no.3. it’s a little pricey but a little goes a long way and it really does a lot to improve the overall health and feel of your hair. their products are really great in general but aside from that honestly? just make sure it’s receiving a lot of moisture and as little heat as possible! i rinse my hair with cool water to further prevent fading and ive switched from regular shampoo to doing an apply cider vinegar rinse when i need to clean my scalp instead and it’s been working well for me. but since you have type 4 hair i doubt you’ll be shampooing it often enough for shampoo fading to be too huge of an issue so i think you’ll probably be ok!

i know aBdjshdowhdkd every time i see a lesbian criticize it they literally get attacked for days on end by a bunch of men

that is so pathetic lmaooooo